Nigerian based Life coach and ghost writer Solomon Buchi has expressed his concern on how Africa men give their fellow black wives the traditional treatment.
He said via his Instagram handle that Africa men will marry their fellow black women and be traditional as if he’s an ancestor. He said that the men will insist that it is the woman job to do the house chores and take care of baby, whereas if they marry a white woman they won’t give her the same treatment.
The public figure further said that the African men will treat the America wife well and be ready to do the house chores and even cook for her as well. He said that according to them the traditional expectations don’t matter again. Noting that, a traditional Odogwu has turned to vegetable before our eyes.
He also wanted to know why the white are treated better than the black wives, he asked, wondering if the black men are intentionally unkind to black women.
“An African man will marry a fellow black woman and be traditionally as if he’s an ancestor. They’ll swear that it’s a woman’s work to cook, clean and take care of the baby. Until they marry a white woman, everything changes. They will cook, push the baby’s stroller in public places, clean te house as hell. They’ll take it a notch by opening a family tiktok account: “This is how I cook when my American wife is tired”.
“Teaching my British wife how to cook Egusi” etc. Now, all that traditional expectations don’t matter again. A traditional Odogwu has turned to vegetable before our eyes. Is it that Black men are intentionally unkind to Black women? Because why do we treat white wives better than black wives?” He wrote.
Solomon Buchi is a young Nigerian-based life coach, writer, public speaker and a gender-equality activist. He is a prolific writer with headlines on National dailies bordering around gender and relationship issues. He is one of the best life coaches and quotes writers in Nigeria and is well-known on social media for his inspirational remarks and role as a life counselor. He is also known for posting Christian relationship quotes.